Our Rainbow
Written by
Pauline Barclay and inspired by true events.
Who would
have thought what eight weeks would bring? Nothing in our imagination could
have thought any of this could happen or what we were about to face. Nothing
could have prepared our family for what was about to happen.
Stay at
home, the headlines flash. The radio and television never stop reminding us and
then of course Social Media plays its part in telling us we must stay home. I
understand. My dad is a doctor, who better to remind our family about what has happened
to our world. We are a normal family with four beautiful children who have more
energy than a crowd at the FA cup final. We have issues and areas of our lives
that often need help. One of our sons, from time to time, needs special help,
but we still see ourselves as normal. We are happy, full of optimism and we are
surrounded by a wonderful extended family who help and care.
Lock down is
announced and not only must we stay at home, but our extended family can no
longer visit and, equally as upsetting, we can’t visit them. Three of our four children
now have home schooling, the baby is still running around playing with her toys
and totally happy that her brothers and sister are home all day. And, like every home in the country we have to
try and find a routine and a way of life to get through however long lock down
will last. Our home has become, a school room, an office, a playroom, a playground,
a cinema and much more. Who would have thought these small four walls would have
to encompass so much, but if we thought having to cope with lock down was
tough, our real nightmare was about to begin.
At the same
time as lock down was announced we learnt that the lady of our home was diagnosed
with cancer. My beautiful partner and mother of four gorgeous children was ill.
The next few weeks would test us, but with lock down we would be taken to the
wire. Within days of diagnosis began intense
chemotherapy, followed by surgery, quickly followed by the start of another
long program of chemo. Our home, normally, filled with happiness, laughter and
family chaos, was trying to cope. Tears from children who didn’t and couldn’t understand
how sick mummy was. Home schooling became difficult and at times impossible.
Our son who needs a little help, found the lack of routine and his mummy needing
to leave the home for hospital appointments too much to deal with. Before lock
down, my dad, a doctor, decided he would stay with us for a few days. I will
never be able to thank enough Gods for him staying back then, because of lock
down he has remained and without him being with us, we would never have got this
far. Lock down means we can’t have our family come and help us, we are muddling
through. Cooking has become something that we share as best we can, the
children get involved as they know daddy is not a cook good or otherwise, but
so far we have not starved. We are doing our very best and our children still
laugh and smile and play happily together. Their energy never ceases to amaze
me. We have moments of tears and questions and more so when mummy is so very sick
after her chemo session. Yet despite all this she finds the strength to cuddle
them, tell them how much she loves them and that she will be well again soon. We
know it will end and our beautiful lady of the house will recover. We know it
will take a long time for her to regain full strength, but she will. The lock
down will end, eventually, and life will carry on. Families will once again be
together and our own rainbow’s colours will shine brighter and more vibrant because
we are a family; a beautiful family that fights and we will come through all of this.
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